Redefining Success

In High School success was passing your courses and graduating. Having friends, a date on Friday, and a date for the Prom are good.

In college success was still passing your courses, but more important was figuring out your major. Most of us had no experience whether we would like our career afterwards, but we choose them anyway.

After college success was getting your first job and an apartment. Friends and good times may be a priority. The adventurous take breaks and travel, while most of us tried to figure out what we are doing at work.

Next success was finding love and marriage. Success is finding a partner to love and who will love us.

Family comes after marriage. Success was buying a house or condo. As the family grows, success was getting a bigger house.

Getting promoted, or getting a better job was our next definition of success. Some will choose to be self employed instead.

At some point, the economy or business cycle changed and success was keeping our job as other were laid off.

Maybe your next success will be retiring, or maybe it was a recent success. Perhaps you will consider it a success to find part time work to keep you busy, or success is more games of golf.

While these are all fine goals, I think most are not a good definition of success with the exceptions of love and family. Let’s propose a better definition of success.

Success is when we take care of customers. Success is earning a living. Raising good children is a success. Success is when we make the world a better place.

Success is when we do for others selflessly. Success is not about us, not what we own, but about serving others. We succeed when we help. Help any way we can by either our time or money. Volunteer at charities or church. Volunteer in you schools or neighborhood. Just take action for others.

Isn’t that a better definition of success for you to live by? Change your definition of success and you can leave a better world. Then you are succeeding!