October 29, 2016

Volunteer to Grow


What is not obvious is the growth that comes from being a volunteer.

Got a nice compliment from a friend after our 7th annual Chilifest. Was tired and cleanup was wrapping, so time to go. Paul said he really appreciated how I volunteer because I do so much.

Admit being a little embarrassed in front of the other volunteers. What I did that night was not that important. Helped set up tables, got people registered and to their table, made coffee, carried things, got ice and cooked hot dogs for the kids. Nothing other people don’t do.

Dawns later, was important talking with contestants, guests, kids and volunteers to make sure everyone had a good time. Probably what stood out.

Been volunteering for a long time. Giving blood, helping organize, grunt work, picking up trash, taking money, making name tags, inviting speakers, introducing people, and making (small) donations. Not special.

However have grown from young self-centered to thinking about others. Have gone from doing it myself to being part of a community. Went from shy to social. Met great people and continue to meet community & business leaders. Even considered a leader by others. Not intentional, just happened.

How to do it? Just show up, and be willing to do something. Am willing to wash dishes or serve anyone. Act like a host/hostess. Do something you haven’t done before. Be awkward. Let someone show you. Kids can be the best teachers.

Volunteers are not experts and don’t do this everyday. Nor do the people being helped expect perfection. We joke about things being messed up, because you get the help you pay for.

The best thing is not to do something and then leave. The most important thing you can do is meet people and let them know you care. Growth comes from caring.

"Embrace fear, insecurity and uncertainty as the doorways of opportunity that they are." 
- Jenny Blake, author “Pivot: The Only Move That Matters Is Your Next One”


October 22, 2016

People Don’t Succeed by Complaining


It is amazing how many people complain. Way past traffic or the weather. What else is driving them crazy today? Everything and Everyone.

Thing is I don’t see successful people complain. They talk about what is bothering them. Then talk about potential solutions or see if you have any ideas.

Yes I complain at times. Then I catch myself, or get tired of hearing myself. I don’t even want to listen to myself complain.

It is too easy to justify how I want to get it off my chest. But does it help you if I complain? Why should I burden you with my problems?

Our purpose in life is not to be right. Not to be perfect. We are here to help others.


Rather ask how you are doing and listen.

October 15, 2016

The Great Rewrite


Forbes and KPMG have created this wonderful video series on changing innovation is going to affect us all. Yesterday’s science fiction is today’s reality. New materials, new energy sources, new manufacturing methods, new intelligence and new tools for the future.

Companies have to go from one or two people to everyone creating innovations.
Please watch some of the videos. How are you going to adapt, thrive and create your own innovations?

What would you like to change?




October 8, 2016

Even Success Has Down Times


Been a bad month or two for the diet. In July was down below my Goal at 174 lbs. Looking good as an old man can (not much to work with J)

Last 2 days back up to 180 lbs., which is the high end of desired weight range. Like to stay between 172 - 180 lbs.

What to Do to Cope
First laugh a little. It is NOT the END of the WORLD. Just need to get more disciplined and stop eating everything in sight. Liking to snack too much here.

No it is not fun to be setback. It is an excuse to walk/exercise a little more. Take the golf umbrella in the rain and wear boots for an extra mile.

Where is the healthy food? Did eat homemade fish burrito and veggies tonight.

Need to cut portions. Apparently full glasses of ice cream and 2nd donuts are too much.

Remember even champions get off course now and again. That is why pro athletes have coaches and revise their programs.

So what ever you are struggling with, there are others struggling with and people who have overcome. Find someone else to talk with, get started with little steps, and find daylight to look at. Setbacks are only temporary.


You are not alone.

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